.. you learn to do by doing ..

One of my favorite quotes can be found in the picks on my Second Life profile.

You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying,
to run by running, to work by working;
in just the same way, you learn to love by loving.
                                             ~ Anatole France

This quote just purely makes sense to me. While I think that the quote really focuses on the last bit about love, it is true about everything.  We learn in many ways, but for most of us, we learn best by “doing”.  It makes me think about what I’ve learned during my years in Second Life.

I’ve learned how to ‘play’ in Adobe Photoshop.  I’ve learned to create graphics for large and small events.  I figured out how to find sources for graphics that could be purchased to utilize in these posters, invitations, logos, announcements, etc.  I have learned how to plop one of those designs onto clothing templates (mesh and system) but it isn’t always easy for me. I’ve learned that I can be over-committed to virtual events for good causes just like I over-commit in my first life with work.  I’ve learned to landscape and set up relaxing, beautiful, enticing natural spaces and I’ve truly learned to shop!  Definitely learned all those by doing them!

But I’ve learned other things too…I’ve learned that people find the virtual world an excellent place to hide, to show their fears, to overcompensate for their shortcomings, to be bullies, to be rude and show anger…all behind the cloak of the internet.  I’ve also learned that good friends can be made, that love can be found, and it can even transcend beyond the internet. Sadly, I’ve learned that hearts can break even more intensely than with a real world relationship.  I’ve learned to accept the departure and disappearance of friends and those close to me. And slowly, I’ve learned that real, caring, truthful friendships are very rare in all worlds.

What have you learned?

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Credits:

The Scene
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Location:  Chateau Village – a ‘World of Darkness’ roleplay sim
(for more information on the sim and the roleplay, click here)

 I’m wearing:
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.4
Skin: -Glam Affair – Caroline Skin –  New Day  – America C
Freckles: IGOTIT – Ginger Freckles Face and Body (SaNaRae)
Eyes: {S0NG} :: Luna~ Envi Eyes
Lashes: ::BB:: Mesh Lashes V.01 (minimalist black)
Hair: Exile::Loose Ends (Collabor88)
Ears: [MANDALA] SIMPLE_EARS_HUTUU
Earrings: Cae :: Elusive :: Earring
Necklace: MINIMAL – Alianza Necklace LightGold (ShinyShabby)
Hands: Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Casual
Rings: MINIMAL – Amanecer Ring *7* Silver (Gacha Garden)
Rings: MINIMAL – Zima Ring *5* Gold (The Season’s Story)
Rings: MINIMAL – Zima Ring *6* Silver (The Season’s Story)
Rings: ieQED jessi.rings.silver
Outfit:  *agp* (Agapee) Amy outfit wool brown-Slink/TMP/Maitreya (Kustom9)
Feet: Maitreya Mesh Body – Feet V3.4
Shoes:  Ingenue :: Amelia Boots (Maitreya) :: Chestnut (past Collabor88)
Bag:  !gO! Mercy.Bag

Poses:
oOo Studios – Travelogue_four

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.. life is all before us ..

“Snow fallen, another going
gone, new come in, open
the door:
                  each night I grow
young, my friends are well
again, my life is all
before me,
                   each morning
I close a door, another door.”

~ excerpt from “Grayed In” by Martha Collins

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Credits:

Pose:
an lár [poses] The Seattle Series – Two (Shiny Shabby) @

The Scene:
Fawny – Winter Wonderland.Deer –  Mount – RARE (The Arcade) @
Fawny – Winter Wonderland.Standing Deer – Decor  (The Arcade) @
{vespertine} little prince carousel – daydream / med ver
-Hanaya- Momma Reindeer (group gift)
-Hanaya- Daddy Reindeer (group gift)
Little Branch_Alaska.v1~Cluster{Seasons}
Skye Enchanted Woods v2
:Fanatik Architecture: Rocky Island Winter

I’m wearing:
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.3
Skin: -Glam Affair – Summer v3 – Jamaica – August E
Eyes: {S0NG} :: Luna~ Envi Eyes
Lashes: ::BB:: Mesh Lashes V.01 (minimalist black)
Hair: MINA Hair – Cecilia 02 (Shiny Shabby)
Ears: [MANDALA] SIMPLE_EARS_HUTUU
Necklace: ASO! SnowFlake Necklace (silver)  (Wayward Events group gift)
Necklace: paper.arrow. measure.my.heart.necklace silver
Hands: Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Casual
Ring: MINIMAL – Big Ring .Gold. Red
Ring: *The Cove* Ever Ring
Top: !gO! Pansy Sweater  (Advent Calendar Group Gift)
Pants: Addams // Lixie Ripped Super Skinny Jean
Shoes: fri. – Jessica.Boots (Wolf)  (Collabor88)

.. let every day be Christmas ..

Christmas is forever, not for just one day,
for loving, sharing, giving, are not to put away
like bells and lights and tinsel, in some box upon a shelf.
The good you do for others is good you do yourself.

Peace on Earth, good will to men,
kind thoughts and words of cheer,
are things we should use often
and not just once a year.
Norman Wesley Brooks

The Arcade‘s December round ends in just a few short days.  There are so many cute and fun creations to be found so if you haven’t gotten all the items you wanted, head over now so you can load up before it is gone.

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Credits:

The Scene:
From the December Round of The Arcade:
{what next} Winter’s Cottage (with snow/lights) @
{what next} Merry Welcome Mat @
{what next} Flakey the Snowman @
{what next} Winter Bench (snowflake) @
{what next} Red Winter Mailbox  @
{what next} Winter Bike (wear me) @
floorplan. vintage scooter / cherry [add me] RARE @
xin. kolouk husky (baby it’s cold outside) @
Sway’s [Snow Friend] Building kit RARE @
Sway’s [Snow Friend] Upside down . A @
MudHoney Twig Cone Trees @
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope – Coffee Break x @
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope – Photographer x @
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope Baby – The Little Artist RARE x @
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope Baby – Busy Body Bunny x @
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope Baby – Peekaboo x @
Scarlet Creative – The Arcade Dec 15 Campbell Tartan Sofa  @
Fancy Decor: Cut-Out Cuckoo Clock (Wood) RARE @
Trompe Loeil – Curly Cutout Tree @
Trompe Loeil – Hammered Silver Tree @
Trompe Loeil – Vintage Diamond Floor Lights @
Trompe Loeil – Reindeer Cutout Wall Art @
[HD]Petphone (0)=Deer= RARE @
{vespertine} – holiday treats/natural 10  @
R(S)W Vintage Coffee Tray – Green @
R(S)W Victorian Trunk – RARE @
.aisling. Rugs @
.aisling. ARMCHAIR – RARE @
NOMAD // Gustavian Coffee Table @
NOMAD // Baubles Wreath @
Schadenfreude Vixen Deer Mouse @
Schadenfreude Angel Deer Mouse @
Schadenfreude Sleepy Deer Mouse @
[ keke ] winter metal tree – dusk @
[ zerkalo ] Magical Christmas – Basket with Ornaments @
[ zerkalo ] Magical Christmas – Christmas Tree – RARE @
[ zerkalo ] Magical Christmas – Pile of Gift @
[ zerkalo ] Magical Christmas – Chair with Gifts @
<:*BoOgErS*:> Gift Bear Green VIB @
<:*BoOgErS*:> Noel Bear VIB @
*Little Hopper* – Lilliput Robot (Santa) RARE @
[LJ] Dollie Days – Snowtime Playset – Snowman @
[LJ] Dollie Days – Claus Playset – Christmas Tree @
[LJ] Dollie Days – Mrs. Claus @
[LJ] Dollie Days – Mr. Claus @
[LJ] Dollie Days – Snowtime Playset – Snowdrift @
[Con.] Tilbury Roadster  – Black

Other items in the scene:
Botanical – *Seasonal Boxwood*
[DDD] Low Poly Trees
Skye Four Season Oak Tree
LB_Alaska.v1~Cluster{Seasons}
Skye Enchanted Woods v2
Skye Snow Grass
HPMD* Sweet Garden Grass05 – snowy green
HPMD* Sweet Garden Grass04 – snowy green1b
Silver Birch from Studio Skye
Izzie’s – Winter Road + Snow

I’m wearing:
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.3
Skin: -Glam Affair – Summer v3 – Jamaica – August E
Eyes: {S0NG} :: Luna~ Envi Eyes
Lashes: ::BB:: Mesh Lashes V.01 (minimalist black)
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Bernadette [Hat] (group gift)
Ears: [MANDALA] SIMPLE_EARS_HUTUU
Necklace: Tableau Vivant \\ Starry Night necklace (The Arcade Dec 2015 gift)
Earrings:  L*H Bethlehem Star Earrings (subscriber gift)
Hands: Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Casual
Nail Polish: Entice – Christmas Nails – Set 1 (2015 SL Christmas Expo) @
Rings: ~Tantalum~ Epiphany Ring Lt (2015 SL Christmas Expo) @
Shirt: !gO! Alex turtleneck (2015 Advent gift)
Skirt: !gO! Girl Scout kilt  (2015 Advent gift)
Tights: Izzie’s – Cozy Tights
Feet: Maitreya Mesh Body – Feet V3.3
Shoes:  *COCO*_Lace-UpBoots(Black)

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